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Read John 11
Read the exchange with Martha and Mary, then notice how Jesus responds to their sorrow.
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When someone you love is gone, even ordinary days can feel unfamiliar. Scripture makes room to mourn, to receive companionship, and to seek hope in Jesus Christ. You can seek His comfort while still missing the person you love.
Begin with compassion
The image offers a place to pause before studying. Notice the person being held rather than searching for an explanation of the loss. The passages below offer different perspectives: the Savior’s response to mourning, His knowledge of suffering, and the responsibility to care for one another.
These are invitations for reflection. They do not establish a timetable for sorrow or require you to describe a painful experience before you are ready.
Jesus wept with those who mourned
In John 11, Martha and Mary speak to Jesus after their brother Lazarus has died. Martha expresses faith in resurrection, and Jesus identifies Himself as the resurrection and the life. Later, He sees Mary and the people with her weeping, and He also weeps.
The account holds sorrow and hope together. Jesus’s knowledge of what He will do does not erase His compassionate response to the people before Him. Read the whole encounter, including the sisters’ words, rather than treating the shortest verse as the entire story.
Pause with the passage
What do you notice about the way Jesus receives sorrow? What would it mean to let hope and sadness be present in the same prayer?
The Savior knows suffering
Alma 7:11–13 describes Jesus Christ taking upon Himself pain, sickness, death, and the infirmities of His people. Alma connects that experience with the Savior’s knowledge of how to help them.
For Latter-day Saints, this passage is a source of confidence in Christ’s compassion. Its focus is His redeeming work and capacity to help; it does not explain the particular cause of every loss. When reading, distinguish what Alma promises about the Savior from an explanation you may wish the passage would provide.
Name what you need today
What comfort do I need today? What could I say to Heavenly Father without trying to make it sound polished or complete?
Grief can be met with companionship
In Mosiah 18:8–10, Alma describes a people willing to bear one another’s burdens, mourn with those who mourn, and comfort those needing comfort. He places this willingness within the commitments of baptism and service to God.
The passage gives companions something concrete to consider: presence, shared burdens, and comfort. It does not ask them to supply an answer to every question. As an optional application, consider listening, bringing a meal, helping with an ordinary task, or remembering a meaningful date. Let the grieving person’s needs guide what you offer.
Consider one person
Who could sit with me, listen, or help carry a practical burden? If I am supporting someone else, what could I ask instead of assuming what would help?
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Read Mosiah 18
Read verses 8–10 in context and consider what it means to mourn with and comfort another person.
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A quiet practice for today
This optional focusChrist practice can be done in a notebook, in prayer, or in conversation with someone you trust. Use only the parts that are helpful today.
- Choose one passage and read the surrounding verses.
- Write one thing the passage says about Christ or caring for another person.
- Write one memory, question, or need you want to acknowledge.
- Choose one small way to receive or offer companionship.
Return without pressure
What changed as I paused with this passage? What remains unresolved? I can return to both without pretending the loss no longer matters.
Official sources
The scripture explanations above are based on John 11:17–36, Alma 7:11–13, and Mosiah 18:8–10. Personal questions and practical suggestions are focusChrist study aids.